Men's Workshop and Play Space — London

Meet your
sexuality

with presence

A consent-led, therapeutically-informed space for gay men to meet their sexuality with presence rather than performance.

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The Experience

What is
Erotic Gateway?

A thoughtfully facilitated, sex-positive space for gay men that weaves embodiment, consent, and therapeutic practice into a guided erotic experience.

The Erotic Gateway is a full-day immersion for men who want to meet their sexuality with presence rather than performance. This is not simply a play party. It is a structured, carefully held journey that begins with embodied workshop practices and intentionally transitions into a consent-led erotic space.

You will be supported to slow down, tune into your body, and clarify your desires. The emphasis is on safety, humanity, and genuine connection — creating an environment where you can meet yourself and other men with steadiness and self-trust.

A Structured Journey

The Day

Morning

Workshop

Practices designed to bring you into your body

Build confidence in your body
Develop clear consent and boundaries
Ask for what you want without shame
Release limiting sexual scripts
Cultivate regulation and erotic awareness

Afternoon

Erotic Space

A structured, sex-positive environment

Explore connection and touch at your own pace
Express your erotic self, consciously and respectfully
Engage, observe, or take space as needed

Everything remains invitational. Consent guides every step. Your "no" carries equal weight to your "yes."

Your Guides

Meet Your Facilitators

Core Energetics & Neo-Tantra

Armand Botha

Trained in Core Energetics, deepening work through Neo-Tantra, Sexological Bodywork, IFS, and Body Poetry. His approach is grounded, experiential, and playful.

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Psychotherapist & Group Facilitator

Sam Cotton

An experienced psychotherapist and trauma-aware group facilitator specialising in gay male clients. Formerly of The Priory and the Hoffman Process.

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Experiences

What People
Say

"The care and structure made all the difference. I felt safe enough to actually let go and be present in my body for the first time."

— Workshop Participant

"Not what I expected. It was deeper, more human, more grounding. I left feeling more connected to myself than I have in years."

— Workshop Participant

"The consent framework is excellent. You can fully relax knowing that boundaries are genuinely respected here."

— Workshop Participant

What's Next

Upcoming Events

Full-day immersions from 9:30 AM to 6:00 PM. Venues and details confirmed on booking.

Next Sun 12th April
From £85 →
Sat 2nd May
From £85 →
Sat 27th June
From £85 →
Sat 18th July
From £85 →

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